So you've discovered your spouse is cheating on you but instead of asking for forgiveness, he leaves you and permanently lives with his other woman. More than a blow to your womanhood, the rejection and betrayal strike the very essence of your humanity. To make matters worse, you still want him back .
I would like to believe that a cheated spouse who is deadly serious about winning back a cheating spouse has some valid reason for risking a lot more heartache by more rejection. It is either the husband or the marriage is worth saving or else there is no sense in going through the effort at all. It is only the offended spouse who can determine this.
A man who leaves his wife for another woman is most probably trying to escape the marriage for one reason or another. A woman therefore, who intends to get back her man should avoid the emotional blackmail technique, hoping to get the man guilty enough to come back. This strategy almost always backfires and usually results to driving the man further away. The last thing he needs to see and hear is a hysterical woman alternately pleading to him and blaming him. A wife who acts this way only succeeds in making the other woman a more attractive option.
There is no need to resort to games when a woman fights for her man. She can make her intentions of getting her husband back very clear without appearing hopelessly desperate. This is the time where a woman has to take greater care of herself by not ignoring her appearance and personal goals. A clinging woman does not present an inviting picture to a philandering husband.
The beauty about making one's self better in a most difficult situation is that the person does not stand to lose anything which has not already been lost. A cheating husband no matter how worthy is still a cheater. When all efforts are in vain, the cheated wife can still get the last laugh once the cheater realizes that his preference for the other woman is his loss and not hers.
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