In Your Face Cheating

You recently discovered your husband has been cheating on you with your good friend. What's worse is that your friend lives next door to you and your husband does not want to make a choice between the two of you. Instead, he comes up with a "brilliant" idea where he has the convenience to go home to any of you as he pleases while he continues supporting you. He's cheating on you while preparing for Plan B in having you as a spare in case everything does not work out with the other woman.

Don't be a fool not to realize that he is acting merely to accommodate what is convenient for him. He is practically cheating in your face and doing nothing will signify your acceptance of the situation. This is an open invitation for more abuse to follow.

Can you imagine having to accept seeing your own children forced into the extraordinary predicament of having an extended family as in having two families merged together under a single husband and father? In spite of the modern outlook most people have today, there is still something quite uncomfortable and unacceptable in this kind of set-up. It tends to confuse family values especially among the children.

You can force your husband to support you and your children through legal means without having to grant his humiliating condition. Abuse should not be perpetuated in the guise of getting the consent of the unwilling spouse. Using the financial dependence, physical disability or any weakness of the cheated spouse to pressure acceptance is adding insult to injury.