The Need to Ask

When a man has a compelling need to ask his wife if she is cheating on him, chances are, she is. The need to ask arises when then are signs that are making a husband suspicious and doubtful of a wife's fidelity. Unless he is just plain insecure or distrustful, a man seeking confirmation of a partner's faithfulness has seen signs that would lend credence to the possibility of infidelity. In fact, the need to ask is a sign in itself that something is terribly wrong in the marriage.

The husband may be experiencing physical alienation from the wife. She finds every reason to "escape" physical intimacy with him which somehow runs contrary to her new-found interest in her looks. For why would a wife strive to look extraordinarily attractive if she exhibits absolutely no interest in the man of her life? Either she's into some serious path of self-discovery where she decides to be beautiful because of herself alone or she has found another man whose appreciation she desires so much that she would dare to risk arousing suspicions.

Cheaters will only confess if they choose to. Even seeking confirmation straight from them without strong evidence is an almost impossible task. They will deny as long as they can and can prolong the charade by acting hurt and insulted by the accusations.

Faithful spouses who see signs of unfaithfulness on the part of their partners would need to seek proof before asking . With undeniable proof, the cheater does not even need to answer the question of whether she has been unfaithful or not. What she will probably need to answer is the question of why she did it. Many cheated spouses need an answer to this question specifically those who cannot think of any justifiable reason for the infidelity to occur.