There is always someone or something that can arouse the deepest fear in every person. This fear can be effectively used to curb and stop the cheating activities of an unfaithful spouse. When a cheater feels no fear for the partner and makes no bones about hiding his unfaithfulness, it is time to strike where he will feel it most.
A cheater's strongest source of fear in being exposed may be a close family member, an immediate superior at work, a company or organization, the spouse of the mistress, or the children. Many cheaters are willing to flaunt their unfaithfulness to their spouses but may be more timid in front of other people or groups in which they wish to maintain their good side. The fear is caused by an expected backlash or consequence which the feared person or group can impose on the cheater.
A company which does not tolerate spousal infidelity can terminate the cheater's employment. A social or civic organization in which the cheater retains membership may expel the cheater from their roster. Children may withhold affection to the erring parent. Parents may see it fitting to reduce the cheater's share in inheritance. The spouse of the mistress can be a dangerous foe to contend with.
Sometimes, the mere threat of telling does the trick. The cheated spouse just needs to find that one threat that will matter most in terms of causing the most potential embarrassment, the most financial effect, and the most feared repercussion that the cheater could ever imagine. Having this one leverage may remind the cheater to toe the line of respect in marriage.
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