Exposing the lover of your spouse to his/her own spouse is probably the sweetest revenge you can think of to get even as an aggrieved spouse. You can almost imagine the life of your fiercest competitor for your spouse's affection becoming more difficult and complicated because of the exposure. The last thing you'll probably think of is how the lover can make life more difficult for you now that he/she has nothing to lose.
You think why not raise hell if your spouse's lover appear to cheat with your spouse with no compunction. Harmful actions have a tendency to haunt their doers no matter how justified they seem to be at the time of commission. The spouse of the lover will eventually find out the truth but it would be best for you not to purposely pursue the option of being its bearer but rather concentrate on finding ways to repair your broken marriage.
Pushing your spouse's lover to the edge by exposing the truth to his/her spouse may just expedite what could still be prevented. With the lover having no one else to turn to and your spouse under the illusion of being "in love", they might just do something impulsive and leave everything behind to be together. Everything includes your marriage and the lover's marriage.
If you are intent on fighting for your marriage, fight in a way that will not push your spouse further away. Find a way that will not encourage the lover to take personal revenge on you. Find the way into your spouse's heart which will encourage him/her to return to you.
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