The Missing Link

You know your spouse is cheating, you know how it is being done behind your back, you have heard people alluding to it and yet you do not hold any hard evidence. What is the missing link here? What is that one thing missing that could let you hold your spouse accountable for infidelity?

Since a cheater almost always do not confess, the missing cheating proof will have to be produced by the doubting spouse by hook or by crook. You can resort to legal means through professional investigation or you can opt for some underhanded tricks of your own such as ferreting information from unsuspecting relatives and friends, making surprise visits at your spouse's workplace, or checking out activities used by your spouse to explain long absence from home.

Information known by other people is not always very useful especially if they are not willing to back up what they know in front of your spouse. This is quite understandable since most people would rather not be involved with the personal affairs of others. The straightforward testimony of witnesses to the infidelity is a common missing link to a doubting spouse's quest for the truth.

Another common missing link is the lack of specifics and details that can prove to your cheating spouse that you know the truth and further lies will not serve any more purpose but to delay the inevitable showdown. Cheaters have the tendency to buy time to prolong the "secrecy" of the affair in the hope of buying time for themselves in answering for their actions. With enough resourcefulness, cheaters can be pushed far enough to confess their misdeeds.