No Fear, No Shame, No Guilt

The way some cheaters go about their activity, you would think that infidelity has become the new moral standard. They exhibit no fear, no shame, and no guilt. Whether or not their seeming non-concern is meant as an attempt to remove the stigma from infidelity or a justification for a misdeed, we should know better than go along with the idea.

Cheaters who show no fear are either saying that there is nothing wrong with what they are doing or they couldn't care less what other people including their spouses, think or say. Cheaters who have no shame have moral standards that are different from that considered acceptable by society. Cheaters who feel no guilt feel entitled to the act by virtue of some skewed reasoning.

Many cheaters come up with their own coping mechanisms that will allow them to provide a "basis" for their actions. One way is to justify infidelity at all costs until a cheater actually believes the correctness of his/her actions. There is a saying that we are bound to believe a lie if we try hard enough and this is exactly how it is for people who cheat without compunction.

People are generally brought up from childhood with a clear learning of right and wrong. The standards used are typically based on the premise that anything right will not hurt or be detrimental to others while anything wrong hurts other people. If cheaters can successfully block out the negativity of infidelity from their being , they can easily cheat without fear,shame nor guilt.