A philanderer is a man who makes love without any serious intention. He is the male flirt epitomized. What fate awaits a wife who has a philandering husband?
A wife who intends to change a philanderer into a faithful husband should provide plenty of room for hurt and disappointment. Although marriage is a serious commitment, it cannot ensure that a man who is accustomed to having his ways with different women will abide with such a commitment. He may truly love his wife but it would take more than love to completely change his ways.
A natural philanderer would be observed to have roaming eyes for the next prized catch. This is easily seen while couples are still on the dating stage. If a woman has to repeatedly call the attention of her boyfriend to revert his attention back to her instead of the other women in the vicinity, that woman should seriously consider if she can take more of this kind of situation when they are married. Every woman secretly dreams of being the one who can make a man change but sometimes change is impossible, not because of the woman but because of the natural inclination of the man.
A philandering husband who wishes to keep his wife but is unable to change for her will carry on his illicit relationships in secrecy. A wife who is fully aware of her husband's weakness could easily detect what is being hidden because there are always bound to be signs of his infidelity. The woman who enters this situation with open eyes have no one to blame for her predicament. Suffice it to say that she has tried and lost if she eventually decides to leave.
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