There are a number of ways in which a doubting spouse can find proof of spousal cheating. One option is to make a personal investigation. Another is to hire a private investigator.
It may not be very easy to obtain proof especially since infidelity is by nature a clandestine affair, meaning it is hidden or kept secret. The most challenging part in conducting an investigation on a secret matter is determining where to start. Professional private investigators usually have their own system to follow and are equipped and trained to get away with undetected sleuthing.
Doubting spouses who are most probably untrained in the science and art of detective work have a unique factor going for them which is their instinct. Spousal instinct can help direct the investigation in finding the clues that will lead to the truth. Contrary to claims of many cheated spouses that they never saw any sign , there are always signs except that some require more sensitivity to detect than others.
Why is obtaining proof of infidelity important to a doubting spouse? Well for one, it proves that the doubting spouse is not just an insanely jealous individual feeding on unfounded fears. Finding out the truth about infidelity can also work to fast-forward the denial stage in marriage which can hopefully push the relationship towards a solution. Most importantly, having proof leads to closure of a life filled with doubts and anxieties in not knowing. Solid proof of cheating triggers more concrete action and does not leave any room for further lies.